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gay Syllabification: gay

Definition of gay in English:

adjective (gayer, gayest)

1(Of a person, especially a man) homosexual: that friend of yours, is he gay?
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  • Knowing that my son is gay prompted me to consider the issue from another perspective.
  • She admits that she only told her daughters she was gay three years ago.
  • It's not exactly a secret that she is gay.
informal queer
informal queer, camp, pink, lavender, homo
literary Uranian
1.1Relating to or used by homosexuals: feminist, black, and gay perspectives
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  • When I lived in Boston there were few gay bars, as everyone there just mixed in straight clubs.
  • He goes on to say that the support of the gay community means the world to him.
  • Their partnership was one of the first openly gay relationships portrayed in popular media.
2Lighthearted and carefree: Nan had a gay disposition and a very pretty face
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  • And she laughed, laughed at how happy, gay, and carefree her tone sounded.
  • Some people cannot take criticism, and expect everything to always be happy and gay.
  • Yes I know this must come as a shock to you since I am normally such a gay and carefree chap, brimming with chuckles and mirth.
2.1Brightly colored; showy; brilliant: a gay profusion of purple and pink sweet peas
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  • The picture was all the more poignant for me because of the stark contrast offered by the youngsters' skeletal bodies and the gay colours and rich decoration of their mothers' dresses.
  • It was quite a sight, after the War and four years of dreary austerity in England, to see girls whirling round the dance floor in pretty full-length evening dresses in gay colours.
  • So, uh, is the uniform jet black and sombre or colourful and gay?
3 informal offensive Foolish, stupid, or unimpressive: making students wait for the light is kind of a gay rule


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A homosexual, especially a man.
Example sentences
  • The commission suspects hate crimes against gays, lesbians, and transgender people are under-reported.
  • My attitude is that gays and lesbians should have access and opportunity the same way everybody else does, in every institution and walk of life.
  • Discrimination against lesbians and gays in other areas of life is also commonplace.


Gay meaning ‘homosexual,’ dating back to the 1930s (if not earlier), became established in the 1960s as the term preferred by homosexual men to describe themselves. It is now the standard accepted term throughout the English-speaking world. As a result, the centuries-old other senses of gay meaning either ‘carefree’ or ‘bright and showy,’ once common in speech and literature, are much less frequent. The word gay cannot be readily used today in these older senses without sounding old-fashioned or arousing a sense of double entendre, despite concerted attempts by some to keep them alive. Gay in its modern sense typically refers to men (lesbian being the standard term for homosexual women), but in some contexts it can be used of both men and women.


Middle English (sense 2 of the adjective): from Old French gai, of unknown origin.

  • In its original sense of ‘light-hearted and carefree, exuberantly cheerful’, gay goes back to the 14th century and derives from Old French gai. By the 17th century the meaning had extended to ‘addicted to social pleasures’, often with an implication of loose morality, as in, for example, the expression gay dog (a man fond of revelry), or these lines from William Cowper's poem ‘To a Young Lady’ ( 1782): ‘Silent and chaste she steal along / Far from the world's gay busy throng’. In slang use the word could describe a prostitute. The use of gay to mean ‘homosexual’, now the main meaning, is unambiguously found in examples from the 1930s, though there is evidence that it may have been used in this sense earlier.

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