Definition of pity in English:

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Pronunciation: /ˈpɪti/

noun (plural pities)

1 [mass noun] The feeling of sorrow and compassion caused by the sufferings and misfortunes of others: her voice was full of pity
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  • He had no pity, no compassion, no understanding of what the victims of war suffered.
  • Some said that to heal this rift in the Malay ground, some pity, or compassion, must be shown to Anwar.
  • A good number of her early poems attempt to work on the reader's sense of pity and compassion.
compassion, commiseration, condolence, sorrow, regret, sadness, distress, sympathy, fellow feeling, understanding, feeling, emotion
archaic ruth, rue
2 [in singular] A cause for regret or disappointment: it’s a pity you didn’t contact us first what a pity we can’t be friends
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  • In the end, it's a pity because the situation could have been handled a lot better and without the angst and tears.
  • It's such a pity, when perfectly reasonable tinned crab is available in the supermarkets!
  • This enforced secrecy is a pity, because Lalonde might have some useful advice to offer his cousin.
shame, crying shame, cause for regret/disappointment, source of regret, sad thing, unfortunate thing, bad luck, misfortune
informal crime, bummer, sin

verb (pities, pitying, pitied)

[with object]
Feel sorrow for the misfortunes of: I could see from their faces that they pitied me (as adjective pitying) he gave her a pitying look
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  • They were pitied, but few shared empathy with their hopes and dreams.
  • She is pitying my cynical singledom, and I am worrying about her future.
  • Well, when you stop being frightened of someone and then you stop pitying them, there's not really a lot left.
feel sorry for, feel pity for, feel for, feel sympathy for, sympathize with, be sympathetic towards, empathize with, commiserate with, have compassion for, be compassionate towards, take pity on, be moved by, bleed for, have one's heart go out to, condole with, weep for, grieve for



for pity's sake

informal Used to express impatience or make an urgent appeal: for pity’s sake, get a move on!
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  • Look, will you just shut up about the band, for pity's sake?
  • I'm 36, for pity's sake, and I'm not a defenseless kid now.
  • I mean, for pity's sake, just read one, can't you?

more's the pity

informal Used to express regret about a fact that has just been stated: you’re not the one who has to pay the bills, more’s the pity
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  • Well, I'm not as sick as I was, and more's the pity.
  • You can't bring cameras into the dungeon, more's the pity.
  • Shafer and Gore apparently don't see it that way; more's the pity.

take (or have) pity

Show compassion: the old couple took pity on him and gave him food
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  • Perhaps you, too, may laugh at me, but you will relent and have pity on me.
  • Finally she took pity on me, and explained that she was Romanian.
  • I allowed him to stay at my home because I took pity on him.
feel sorry for, relent, show sympathy for, show compassion towards, be compassionate towards, be sympathetic/charitable towards, have mercy on, show mercy to, help, help out, put someone out of their misery



Pronunciation: /ˈpɪtɪɪŋli/
Example sentences
  • His father said pityingly, in an offhand manner, ‘I suppose you wanted to say that earlier.’
  • Tash looked pityingly at me and said, ‘Mel, in here we're the hipsters.’
  • I smile pityingly at those Johnnies-come-lately who claim they alone have the key to man's salvation.


Middle English (also in the sense 'clemency, mildness'): from Old French pite 'compassion', from Latin pietas 'piety'; compare with piety.

  • Latin pius meant ‘pious’(Late Middle English) but had a wider range of meanings than the word does in modern English, to include a wide range of moral qualities from being dutiful to your parents to being loyal, affectionate, compassionate, and kind. The Latin noun was pietas, and this, via French, became both pity and piety (originally used in the same sense as ‘pity’), both Middle English. Pietas also developed a medieval Latin form pitantia, which meant ‘a charitable donation’ and the meagre daily dole of food given out to monks and also to paupers. From this comes Middle English pittance.

Words that rhyme with pity

banditti, bitty, chitty, city, committee, ditty, gritty, intercity, kitty, megacity, nitty-gritty, Pitti, pretty, slitty, smriti, spitty, vittae, witty

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