I or me?


The two personal pronouns I and me are often used wrongly, usually in sentences in which I is being used with another noun. Here are some tips to help you get it right:

  • Use the pronoun I, along with other subjective pronouns such as we, he, she, you, and they, when the pronoun is the subject of a verb:

He went to bed.

We waited for the bus.

Clare and I are going for coffee.

In the last example, the pronoun I, together with the proper noun Clare, forms the subject of the sentence, so you need to use I rather than me.

  • Use the pronoun me, along with other objective pronouns such as us, him, her, you, and them, when the pronoun is the object of a verb or preposition:

Danny thanked them.

The dog followed us.

Rose spent the day with Jake and me.

Me, together with Jake, forms the object of the last sentence, so you need to use the pronoun me rather than the pronoun I.

An easy way of making sure you’ve chosen the right pronoun is to see whether the sentence reads properly if you remove the additional pronoun:

I am going for coffee.Me am going for coffee.
Rose and I went for a coffee.✗ Rose and me went for a coffee.
Rose spent the day with me.✗ Rose spent the day with I.

You can read more about when to use I or me on the Oxford Dictionaries blog. Here you will find tips on using I and me to help get it right in both writing and speech.


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